What Kind of a Mom Were You?

A special blog post for my daughter Breyann to answer her question, “what kind of a mom were you?”  My heart broke into a million pieces and scattered on the ground. It was numb to feeling anything. I suffered through abuse and domestic violence and didn’t get to bond with you and your brother. I lost […]

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Open Letter to Parents

I’m mad as hell at you! The life you prepared me for was full of turmoil, anguish, and pain. It sucked! You failed to do your Job as a parent. And I paid the price for your lack of good parenting skills. Parents are 90% responsible for shaping their child’s future. Children are responsible for […]

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How to Love a Man Without Being Sexual

How do you love a man without it being sexual? This is a special blog post to answer my daughter’s comment on “Why Doesn’t My Mom Love Me.” She was interested to see how I love a man without being sexual. I struggled with this issue for over twenty years and found the answer. The […]

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How a Man Shows Love

How a Man Shows Love – posted in response to “How to Love a Man Without Being Sexual.” Over the years, our father showed his daughters that a man will show his love for a woman by having sexual intercourse with her. And this was the abnormal mindset that I carried on into adulthood. I […]

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Waiting on Finding Love from a Man

Here are a few things to remember when you’re waiting on finding love from a man. A real man would take responsibility for his actions. A real man would say something to a woman he loves. A real man would apologize for his actions. A real man wouldn’t leave a girl hanging, and wondering WTF […]

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How to Catch a Man

I’m embarrassed to post this picture of me online. I wasn’t embarrassed back in 2013. I uploaded this picture and similar ones (without the burning X effect) to an online dating website. At that time, I was trying “To Catch a Man.” At that time, I thought the way to catch a man’s attention, and […]

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